{"id":10625,"date":"2012-12-20T12:22:14","date_gmt":"2012-12-20T18:22:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/?p=10625"},"modified":"2012-12-20T12:22:14","modified_gmt":"2012-12-20T18:22:14","slug":"tnc-reveals-the-secret-of-men-who-have-not-yet-fallen-recently","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/?p=10625","title":{"rendered":"TNC reveals the secret of men who have not yet fallen. Recently."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/Ta-nehisiCoates\/~3\/BcXliJotZVg\/story01.htm\">Link<\/a>. &#8220;&#8230; that&#8217;s not because I am an especially good and true person. In fact, I am wholly in possession of an unimaginably filthy and mongrel mind. But I am also a dude who believes in guard-rails, as a buddy of mine once put it. I don&#8217;t believe in getting &#8220;in the moment&#8221; and then exercising will-power. I believe in avoiding &#8220;the moment.&#8221; I believe in being absolutely clear with myself about why I am having a second drink, and why I am not; why I am going to a party, and why I am not. I believe that the battle is lost at Happy Hour, not at the hotel. I am not a &#8220;good man.&#8221; But I am prepared to be an honorable one.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Link. &#8220;&#8230; that&#8217;s not because I am an especially good and true person. In fact, I am wholly in possession of an unimaginably filthy and mongrel mind. But I am also a dude who believes in guard-rails, as a buddy &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/?p=10625\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[32],"class_list":["post-10625","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-share","tag-pinboard"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10625","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10625"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10625\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kateva.org\/sh\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}